WHat’S lOVE???

I have been contemplating about love for a long time. Sometimes i wonder why people fall in love when they fall out of it so fast? I want someone to define the meaning of love to me. Our parents love us a lot. And they do so much for us, and sometimes they forgo all their happiness just to make us happy. Our siblings’ love is also different, they will do anything just to make you happy or see a smile on your face. But a relationship, i don’t think both parties know what’s love. How can you define it? I’ve been in love once, and it felt so right and good but at the end we just had to lead our lives. We were going out for 3 years and everything seemed so perfect. No doubt there were fights and arguments but we usually get up, forgetting everything that has occurred. There were definitely ups and downs, people opposing us from being together and so forth. But as i can remember, it was the best time in my life. And i was given another chance i’ll definitely make it up for the lost time we had. But then again, some things are just not meant to happen.
Some of my friends say that love is overrated but how do you get married then, isn’t marriage a combination of both body and soul? Then how come people still cheat on their spouses? Why don’t people ever appreciate the people around them? What’s so great in the other person that you can’t find in that one person you love? We always look at the other side, thinking the grass in greener there but at the end everything is the same because it wasn’t their fault for leaving you but it was your own fault, you are just in denial and still go on looking around. I hate relationships because they just never seem to last. All because someone never appreciates what they have got and goes on looking for a better one. I just wish people will understand the basic idea of what love is.

A message by George Carlin

The paradox of our time in history is that:
we have taller buildings but shorter tempers,
wider Freeways, but narrower viewpoints..

We spendmore,but have less,
we buy more, but enjoy less.

We have bigger houses and smaller families,
more conveniences, but less time.

We have more degrees but less sense,
more knowledge, but less judgment,
more experts, yet more problems,
more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little,drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We’ve learned how to make a living, but not a life.
We’ve added years to life not life to years.

We’ve been all the way to the moon and back,
but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor.
We conquere outer space but not inner space.
We’ve done larger things, but not better things.

We’ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.
We’ve conquered the atom,but not our prejudice.
We write more, but learn less.
We plan more, but accomplish less.
We’ve learned to rush, but not to wait.
We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever,but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion,
big men and small character,
steep profits and shallow relationships.

These are the days of two incomes but more divorce,
fancier houses, but broken homes.

These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill.
It is a time when there is much in the showroom window
and nothing in the stockroom.
A time when technology can bring this letter to you,
and a time when you can choose either to share this insight,
or to just hit delete…

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn’t cost a cent.

Remember, to say, “I love you” to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it.
A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take,
but by the moments that take our breath away.

DrAMA..

    I’m sitting in front of my computer feeling tired and lethargic from yesterday’s happenings. I cant believe that a girl can cause two boys fighting! Well let me tell you what happened. One of our friends, wanted to organize a birthday party at our crib and we agreed. The crowd didn’t appear until about 1am, when the house owners, were bored to death. As usual, we had drinks and was dancing our life’s out on the dance floor.

Apparently one of the guy’s was trying to get a girl but she passed out. I mean a gentleman will not touch that GIRL!!! But this guy was trying to get something out of her and the girl’s friend, more like a brother figure saw it and just started yelling. So yeah, there were a few people just screaming. The girls were shocked and some even ran away. But being the house owner, I could not do anything. I mean I am a girl, what can I do?

It was such a drama that I decided that there’ll be no more parties at my house!! It’s insanity for big boys to behave like this and I ain’t going to conform to people’s childish behavior!! I needed to let this out somehow or rather, though a few of our friends stayed back and had a good laugh about the whole drama!!

Well, i hope everyone else’s weekend was good. I just want to sit in my room and finish all my homework. The incident yesterday has put me off my partying mood!

ConFusED

Time passes by so quick
I’m sitting in front of my computer
wondering what’s going to happen
in ma future…

Our cultures and countries differ
We are both family oriented
What’s going to happen
when i have to leave..

You show me affection and
give me all the attention
but at the same time you hold back
and leave me confused…

I wanna talk and tell you so many things
but what if the day never comes
i hurt you once and maybe
this is just a payback time…

Im scared to ask you
probably this is mere ‘friendship’
and i’m taking it all the wrong way
but its also wrong to keep me hanging…

Well guess ill just run my life
and let God decide the verdict of my life
For now, ill keep my distance
and give you the freedom to play with my feelings!

LOvE sTRaTegIes…

When i first saw you…
I was afraid to meet you..
When i first met you…
I was afraid to hold you..
When i first held you…
I was afraid to kiss you..
When i first kissed you…
I was afraid to love you…
Now that i love you (i’m not sure hehehe)..
Im afraid to lose you!!!

Go for someone who makes you smile
because it takes only a smile to make a
dark day seem bright..
it takes only a minute to get a crush on someone
an hour to like someone
and a day to love someone
but it takes a lifetime to forget someone!!!

My weekend

I cant believe the weekend has come to an end. The time just flies by so quickly without us knowing. I can’t even remember what i did or where i went. I remember planning to do a lot of stuff for this weekend but i barely touched anything. The only exciting thing that i did was video calling my parents I got to face them and talk and this was really exciting. I even got to talk to my little cousin who’s three years old. He was singing to me all the nursery rhymes taught in school and was also telling me how he’s going to fly and come to US by the aeroplane. It was a great time, i felt like being home again. Well i guess, ill have to go now. I have class at 9 and have an exam also *sighs*.

MalAYsiA

WonDerS oF liFe…

There are times when fabulous people enter our lives
but we fail to realize their importance and
let them walk out the same door they entered
right then we think we made the right decision
consoling our inner thoughts and feelings…

Moving on with our daily lives can be a hassle
We build a wall of hatred towards them thinking the good times will fade
But the reality is, the more you repress someone from your system
The more you keep ruminating about them..

We start socializing with the unknowns not realizing
The path we’re heading are filled with lies
We think the next move will be right
And give our all to that specific person
Who at the end turns out to be just using your presence…

We go through each phase in life with so many trials and tribulations
Thinking of the possible pitfalls and the outcomes of our decision made
But we always seem to forget that no matter what we do
There’s always someone above us, who is guiding us through
”a man proposes and god disposes”…

Sometimes it’s just too late to reconcile
What you think is right might not be so for the other person
You moved on but he didn’t
And when you realized it, it was too late
He’s now filled with misery and revulsion
He has become numb and emotionless
Too many things have been said about you
He was vulnerable and took in everything without thinking
He would have loved you more If you were not so green and demanding

But now you’re left only with memories of the past
Because you never appreciated the wonderful life you had!!!

THuRSdAy..

Im sooo exhausted from todays classes n work!! I got up at 9am and got to work. Had a class in between and i headed back to washing the dishes, yea i know, its not the world’s best job but hey its the ONLY way to survive in a new country!! And then at 2 pm i headed to Hagg Saur for an hour, boring talk on global warming. Well the topic was not boring but the way it was brought upon sucked big time (sorry for the usage of my words) but trust me i would have felt asleep if i wasn’t required to write a paper on it!!! And then i had another class, Research Lab. This wasn’t that bad, my lecturer was talking about how punishments should or should not be implied on kids or animals. I was drained out when i got home and realized that i haven’t consumed any kind of food since morning!! Well yea, i just got everything done and sat down to write on my blog..I know this not an interesting page but i guess ill improve as the days go by. Till then, bye…